I will admit that dating now and when I was in my younger years is so challenging. I never thought that I’d be single but I was never going to force anyone to be with me so I gave him his papers to do as he wants.
On social media I have seen so many dating nightmare stories that I’m thankful that I am single. I’ve also learned what not to do & how important it is to be upfront with whom your conversating with.
I’ve had conversations with a few men but I let them know before we go out or talk any further that I do not give up the pussy. After I say that I don’t hear from them anymore & that’s fine with me because I’m just weeding out the fuck boys.
I understand that there are men who only want sex so they think that buying you dinner, expensive items or flying you out will get them the pussy.
I read a story about a man who flew a woman out to visit him and when she refused to give up the pussy he cancelled her return ticket & dropped her at the airport and told her to find her own way home. Of course she didn’t have any way of getting home. Now this is a good example of what not to do.
First, ladies you never go anywhere without money or having a back up plan. Secondly, you don’t fly anywhere to see someone you don’t know & it doesn’t matter how long you been talking to that person online or on the phone, you just don’t do it. Third, have the person you are talking to meet you in a public place & never go to their homes. Fourth, ask them what are there expectations before you meet them. Fifth, tell family & friends who you are meeting & where. That situation could have ended badly. I blame both involved, the man for assuming she was just going to give him pussy because he bought a plane ticket & we all know plane tickets are cheap. The woman for not asking what his intentions were before she accepted the fly out.
I know there are women who give their pussy so freely and I don’t judge. For me there is just too many sexual diseases out here to be so carefree about the pussy. My health is just too precious of a gem to just give it away.
I feel that it is important to get to know the person you want to have a relationship with, ask questions, get to know their past, good & bad. If they get an attitude when you question them then you have your answer which is they just want a fuck buddy and nothing more.
There is nothing wrong with having a fuck buddy but just know that you are not the only one they will be exchanging fluids with so protect yourself.
Also be honest about the type of relationship you want but first you must know what relationship you want. Being in a relationship is not easy & it’s a lot of work but once you find your soulmate then you don’t care about the work that it involves.
Again men and women be careful
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