I have been single for a year and I decided I would get back in the dating pool but now I'm wondering if I made the right decision. I've realized that dating now & back when I was younger has become so different.
On one hand I'm appreciative of the men honesty but on the other hand I wish they were not so much & I know I can't have it both ways. So I'll tell you about an interaction I had with a guy at a store he walked up to me while I was standing in line and says "excuse me you're beautiful " I thanked him and I waited for him to shoot his shot or spit some game with his words but he did neither he just boldly said " I don't want a relationship with you, I just want to fuck you". I was…but then I wasn't surprised I didn't say anything and paid for my snacks and walked but that wasn't the end as I was walking out the store I was called everything but the child of God.
Then there are the men who are my age over fifty who don't want to do anything, they don't want to go out, or spend money and they expect you to do everything but then there are the younger men under fifty who only want sex which is fine if that's all you want from a person. Of course you have a small but growing group of men who want you to be their sneaky link, you know the men who don't want anyone to know about you and will go to great lengths to keep it hidden. I often wonder about those men because they either are married or they have a girlfriend and no way am I being anyone's side piece.
I have tried online dating and that was a nightmare because the men on there are creepy and they always say that they want to be your "sugar daddy" and just out of curiosity I entertained one of those guys & he wanted me to send him my banking information and then wanted me to send him money and some other crazy stuff I knew right there it was a scam and I blocked him and then it went downhill after that so I deleted my account and never tried it again. I have realized that on dating sites you either going to get scammers or cheating spouses so I avoid them.
I've read an article about dating now and what the article said was that some men find it easy to ask the woman for a refund if the woman refuses to go on another date which I find pathetic but what they forget paying for the date is a kind gesture to show that they are interested. Now you still have men who expect to have sex because they have taken you out which is no better so the best thing to do before you go out on a date is to set clear boundaries. The article was a good read because it told stories of three women and their nightmare dates. Although you have men who will expect women to go fifty/fifty which is something I would never do because if you ask me out on a date I expect for you to pay and not expect anything from me but a thank you.
Now I know we living in a society where it doesn't matter what your sexual preference is and that in the bedroom everything is admissible but I will never understand straight men wanting to have anal sex. For me that is disgusting and a big nope. Your ass is where shit (bowels)come from it is not meant for a penis. I understand that it is shown in porn movies and that for some it's what they prefer and that's fine for them but for me it'll have me questioning your sexuality and have me thinking that you are bisexual which isn't a problem but again it's something I rather not deal with.
I did some research about anal sex and the complications that come with it and one is you will no longer be able to hold your shit and you will probably need to wear a diaper and then there is the anal tissues that would be torn and other stuff that they say you will have to deal with.
I being a woman who has birthed four children, three vaginally and having to deal with the fact that I can barely hold my pee sometimes because the walls of my punani isn't as strong as it use to be. And then to know that there are men who want to stick their dick in my ass to the point that I can't hold my shit anymore, hell fucking no this is why I'm single and celibate.
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